What these games build

The core skill is emotional vocabulary: moving from 'fine' and 'bad' to words such as frustrated, nervous, proud or disappointed. A second skill is reading cues, such as a frown, crossed arms or a quiet voice, and linking them to a likely feeling.

Keep the tone light. The aim is practice with invented characters and situations, not asking children to disclose personal worries in front of the group. If a child does share something personal, thank them briefly and follow up privately later.

Game 1: Feelings Charades

Players: 3 or more, ages 5-10. Time: 10-15 minutes. Materials: about 12 cards, each with one feeling word and a simple drawn face.

A player picks a card and acts out the feeling using only face and body. The others guess. Whoever guesses correctly suggests one made-up situation where someone might feel that way, then takes the next turn.

• Easier (ages 4-5): use four feelings only (happy, sad, angry, scared) with clear pictures.

• Harder (ages 8-10): add close pairs such as nervous/excited or annoyed/furious and ask guessers to explain which clue gave it away.

• Adult tip: model a turn first and keep the pace quick so no one feels watched for long.

Game 2: Feelings Thermometer Stories

Players: 2-30, ages 6-10. Time: 15 minutes. Materials: a strip of paper drawn as a thermometer from 1 (a little) to 5 (a lot), and a clothes peg per group.

The adult reads a short invented scenario, for example 'Sam's tower falls down just before tidy-up time.' Groups agree on a feeling word and clip the peg where they think the feeling sits on the thermometer. Groups compare and give one reason. There is no single right answer, which is the point: the same event can feel different to different people.

Easier: the adult names the feeling and children only choose the level. Harder: groups suggest one thing Sam could do to move down the thermometer.

Making it stick

Keep the feelings cards visible afterwards so children can point to them during the day. Adults can narrate their own mild feelings aloud ('I feel a bit rushed, so I'm going to slow down'), which shows the vocabulary in real use without making it a lesson.

For families, the same cards work at the dinner table or in the car: one person names a feeling and everyone else thinks of a story character who felt that way. Books are a rich source here, because children can talk about a character's feelings at a comfortable distance from their own.

Key points

• Start with four basic feelings and add finer words gradually.

• Use invented characters and situations, never real incidents from the group.

• Accept different answers; talk about clues rather than right or wrong.

• Keep the cards on display so the words get used outside the game.

Ready-made resources

Printable session plans and materials for this topic are available from EduTrend Contents: G4C-130 Feelings & Friends Games.

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